Thanks all who actually remember my bday and sent me warmest wishes...
munmun (thx for the gift and also precious countdown), angie, ck , waihong, catherine, kin leong, shekli, si black, mum n dad ...
shilang (for the funny sms...)
May (for the card and choc), chin chai alicia ganesh (for the bday lunch i guess...)
10 Q ....
Posted by fukuitsu at 4:09 PM
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Next...
Just watched 'Next' last night.. for me is nice cos i like science fiction films... actually it is another adaption from Philip K Dick's novel.. again... ehhee y i said again de???? and is very very similar to his short-novel --- minority report!!! Both regarding human that can see the future... then use this super-power to avoid crime la.. terrorism la... tragedy la... bla bla bla... hehehe but at the ending part... can hear some ppl yelling.. shouting... scolding jor... tssk tsk tsk.. shallow ppl...
Posted by fukuitsu at 10:06 AM
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Thursday, May 17, 2007
Take things for granted? Arrgghh please stop it!
Stop Taking Things for Granted! A friend recently told me of plans to dump her bf for the third time in as many years. She started with him in a lovely prom night organized by college committee. The guy was doing his job quite well as a bf. I asked why she might leave such a nice person. “Oh, I’m tired of it,” she responded indifferently. “It was great when we first met, but now it’s just the same old thing. I can’t see it anymore.” “I can’t see it anymore.” How accurate the statement. She failed to notice the happiness. She walked by the flowers without so much as a glance. She thought of her bf's shoulder as merely a place to lay down her head. Living in paradise, she might just as well have resided at the city dump. Nine people out of ten would have jumped at the opportunity to 'rent' my friend’s bf, yet she did not appreciate the virtues. Human beings have a curious capacity to take things for granted. The most exquisite diamond loses its luster with familiarity. The most compatible intimate becomes boring. Miracles like the daily sunrise fail to astonish because they’re commonplace! Repetition and time dull our sense of wonder. We endow novelty with powers and attributes that it does not really possess. When a thing becomes familiar to us, the mystery we have projected onto it is lost. We see it without the overlay of our imaginings. The irony in this idiosyncrasy of human character is that we are disappointed by the very things that used to excite us. The once new job, sexual partner, or leisure activity is now tedious. We feel let down rather than uplifted. Disappointment is a consequence of our expectation that an object or event will continue to provide us with stimulation regardless of how constant our contact. Unless we adjust our expectations accordingly, we will continue to feel deflated. Anticipate boredom! But is this really a serious solution? Another alternative is to maintain a fresh perspective on the commonplace by living life with contrast. If my friend had spent time away from her 'perfect' bf, she would have returned to him with “new” eyes. She would have seen him again as she did the first time. She will know she had actually found a treasure!
Posted by fukuitsu at 9:33 AM
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Monday, May 14, 2007
champions... we are the champ!!!!!
Posted by fukuitsu at 12:05 PM
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First bday present of the yr
surprise to get bday present so early de.. hehe..anyway thx munmun... see... my fav ooo.. mu n ronaldo..
Jacky Cheung Live in Malaysia 07 Planned from last year lor... the most anticipated concert of the year..... finally coming... heheh just get the tickets....
Posted by fukuitsu at 3:25 PM
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Tuesday, May 08, 2007
U wanna see wat is a true Ass hole??
this ham kar chan Michael Ball stamping on Ronaldo and run away... referee eat money de.. no showing any cards... ' lucky sky got eyes now clip sent to FA and this ass hole will be charged SOON!!!
Posted by fukuitsu at 5:27 PM
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one time is enuf la.. if day day also mention.. day day also say... human heart is very fragile de... will feel hurt... will feel sad de mah.... aih...
Posted by fukuitsu at 10:49 AM
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Monday, May 07, 2007
Live a simple simple simple... l.i.f.e ...
In many ways, you probably know how to live a simple life, but do you WANT to? Many want the complexity and constant drama of their lives. This is something we each have to look at it honestly. However, some of us really want simplicity, and some would want it if they knew what it felt like to live more simply and at peace. Here are a few ways to get there.
An important secret to how to live a simple life is to learn to look honestly at how life gets complicated. This may be different for each of us, but there are some common habits we do share. One such habit is taking on new responsibilities without fully acknowledging the costs and complexities they add to our lives. When a man buys a boat, for example, does he usually think about the time he will spend maintaining it and cleaning it? Does he think about the trip to the insurance office for insurance, the necessity to shop for accessories like life-jackets and fire extinguishers? Does he remind himself that boats break down, and he'll have to deal with hauling it someplace to have it repaired? Does he consider the trailer-hitch he'll need, the tarp to cover the boat, the tarp to replace that one when it tears, the bearings in the trailer wheels that will someday fail. Finally, Does he think about the hours he will be committed to working to pay for all this fun? It isn't about the boat, by the way. There's nothing wrong with owning a boat. With nothing else was going on in his life, all of the above could easily be a part of "the simple life." However, when we don't honestly recognize the role of our own choices in adding complexity to our lives, we take on more than we can possibly handle. As a result, a million exercise devices sit unused in basements while ten million hours are spent working to pay for them. Look honestly at all the costs, and make well-informed choices - this is the first secret of how to live a simple life. Money Brings Simplicity - Or Complexity Isn't it simple for a rich man to own a boat? He can just pay someone to take care of it while he plays with his kids. Money can bring simplicity to your life, but it's all in how you use it. This is the second important secret of how to live a simple life. People use money in ways that overly complicate life, as when they put a down payment on a hot tub that they really don't need. Then they have to work to pay the interest, they have to clean the tub, find a place for it, and have it repaired. Of course, if you are wealthy enough, someone will take care of these things for you. However, if you make $8 per hour, a hot tub will almost certainly overly complicate your life. If you really want the simple life, the choice then is to make more money, or live a life that is simply supported by your current income. After I paid off the mortgage loan on my first home, and got rid of the car, life became simpler and more relaxing. As I make more money, I can easily add more "things" back into my life, while keeping it simple, as long as I maintain the balance. Drama Adds Complexity For a simpler life, have fewer friends. This may sound harsh, but how many friends do you need? Don't get rid of true friends, but don't add people to your life unless there is a real exchange of value between you. We all have acquaintances we call "friends" and yet only tolerate just to "be nice." Do you think it is selfish to say you don't owe anything to these people? Then how selfish is it for them to say you do? With friends and family, don't get involved in the drama more than you need to. Watch closely, and you'll see that until a person is ready to change, you rarely can help them in any case, neither with words nor with money. Save your efforts for when you truly can help. You weren't born with an obligation to anyone, and it's incredibly selfish for anyone to make such claims on your life. Let the drama swirl around you, but don't get involved in it. This is a crucial lesson on how to live a simple life.
Posted by fukuitsu at 10:44 AM
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Thai BBQ
Me and mun mun went to this BBQ restaurant in One U on labor day. At first i tot it was a korean bbq but later found out it is thais... hehehe.... quite nice ooo
see the fresh beef... chicken.. squids..pork.. shrimphs..
see.. the pig-fat is melting... smells good.. yum..yum..
Lets start cooking... hehehe
Posted by fukuitsu at 10:20 AM
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Thursday, May 03, 2007
untitled...
I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, 'well, if I'd known better I'd have done better,' that's all. So you say to people who you think you may have injured, 'I'm sorry,' and then you say to yourself, 'I'm sorry.' If we all hold on to the mistake, we can't see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can't see what we're capable of being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one's own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that's rough. But you can overcome that. The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don't have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never teach.
Posted by fukuitsu at 10:31 AM
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Wednesday, May 02, 2007
Spidey 3
Go and watch the latest spidey 3. Not sure how u guy think la..I ve seen it and it was juz great to me. hehe